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Smoke, Mirrors, and Money by Steve Diggs
Funny
isn't it how things aren't the way they appear? On the surface things look pretty
good in many of our churches today. We pop on our happy Sunday morning smiles
as we pop out of our freshly washed SUV's wearing our designer cloths. But
believe me, things ain't the way they appear! I'm the guy who travels to churches
presenting the No Debt No Sweat! seminar. My goal is to teach God's people how
to use God's money God's way. I show folks how to give like they should, develop
a workable family spending plan (that's a nice way of saying "budget"),
get out of debt, and invest for their homes, college, and retirement. While I
love my ministry, it has acquainted me with some sad truths. I
have learned that today people are in a lot of financial pain-but no one wants
to talk about it. Today the church openly discusses divorce, remarriage, alcoholism
and substance abuse-but we are still afraid to talk about our money. And while
we sit quietly by, money problems are destroying our spiritual vigor and killing
us! The best data
confirms that Christians have the same financial problems that our secular friends
face. As a matter of fact, our plight may actually be worse. Why? Because Christians
who struggle with financial pain are often afraid of being found out. No one wants
to admit that he's-
Upside down on the loan for the SUV;
Sitting bolt upright in bed at 3:00 am wondering how to pay the rent;
Afraid to answer the phone for fear of another harassing collector;
Waiting for the next VISA Card to arrive because the others are maxed out! So
we continue living a spiritually dysfunctional lifestyle. We borrow 125% of the
value of our homes. We come to church in cars that we finance on 7-year loans.
(No wonder banks have drive-up windows-they give cars a chance to see who owns
them!) We spend money we don't have to buy things we don't need-to impress people
we don't like. Folks, this is dumb behavior! The
facts are clear. Today:
We're spending 20% of our income paying off short-term debt.
70% of us experience living paycheck-to-paycheck.
Money problems are the leading cause of divorce-4 to 1 over anything else.
90% of us won't be able to retire with dignity.
College kids have learned a lot from their parents-the average student is carrying
about $3,000 of credit card debt at graduation.
The average car loan lasts 55 months and costs about $380 per month. If
we are ever going to be about the Father's business, Christians first must free
themselves from financial bondage. We need to realize that money problems are
frequently a sign of deeper spiritual issues. Now
don't jump ahead of me. I'm not about to tell you that it's wrong for a Christian
to have money and some nice things. Jesus had a curious approach to money-He didn't
seem to care whether a person had a lot of it, or not. Jesus looked at hearts-not
check books. From the widow and her mite to the numerous street people, the Gospels
are full of stories about Jesus befriending and ministering to the poor. He
associated with lowly people and recognized their value before God even when the
rest of society (including established religion) viewed them with contempt. He
championed their cause and urged His followers to love, feed, clothe, and show
them hospitality. Jesus
also had wealthy friends. I have long suspected that Mary, Martha and Lazarus
must have had a large home in order to accommodate Jesus and His apostles when
they came into town for a visit. And, let's not forget the story in Luke 8:13,
of "...Joanna the wife of Chuza, Herod's steward, and Susanna, and many others
who were contributing to their support out their private means." (NASV)Apparently,
Jesus' ministry was financed by women who had both pedigree and piles of cash! And
do you remember Matthew, one of Jesus' apostles? He was a tax collector and, based
on his ability to entertain, probably pretty well heeled financially. At Jesus'
death, a wealthy disciple named Joseph supplied the burial chamber. In
His parables, Jesus made use of wealthy people. It took financial resources for
the good Samaritan to minister to the injured man beside the road. The Bible says,
that he "...brought him to an inn, and took care of him. And on the next
day he took out two denarii and gave them to the innkeeper and said, 'Take care
of him; and whatever more you spend, when I return, I will repay you.'" (Luke
10:34,35 NASV) This good man had more than good intentions-he had the resources
to check his injured friend into a hotel. And, folks, we all know that you can't
stay at a Hilton for free! So,
if money isn't the problem-what is? The problem is that modern day Christians
have bought the big lie. Like the outside world, we have actually convinced ourselves
that a bigger house or a newer car will make for happiness. So we work a little
later and borrow a little more trying to fill the holes in our hearts. And after
we've bought what we thought would make us happy-we are happy. For a day, or two...or,
maybe three. Then the cycle begins again. As
Christians we need to become spiritual cardiologists. We need to do more self-exams
of our hearts. Maybe a closer examination will help us see that the holes in our
hearts are shaped exactly like Jesus-and, nothing else will fill them. Know
this above all else: God is on your side-He's pulling for you. It doesn't matter
whether you are doing well financially or trying to get out of smothering debt-God's
ways work. God's way really does change lives and legacies. Remember, "Make
sure that your character is free from the love of money, being content with what
you have; for He Himself has said, "I will never desert you, nor will I forsake
you.'" (Hebrews 13:5, NIV) God
does want His people set free from every form of bondage, including financial.
Only then will we be at our best for others, ourselves, and the Kingdom work we're
here to do! Click
here to learn about the 19-chapter book, No Debt, No Sweat!
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